Matt + Holden

A wooden table with wedding vows booklets, a park map, invitation cards, and a bottle of Dolce & Gabbana perfume.
Two men in formal attire stand in a well-lit room with tiled walls. One adjusts the other's bow tie. A chandelier hangs overhead.
Two men in formal attire stand in front of a large ornate mirror. One adjusts the other's bow tie. A chandelier and a sink are visible in the background.
Two people in dark suits, one spraying perfume on the other's wrist.
Two men in tuxedos hold hands and smile, walking outdoors in a garden ceremony with trees and seated guests around them.
A black plate with a menu sits on a wooden table. Nearby are a black fork and knife, lit candles, and an arrangement of orange flowers and greenery.
A wooden table is set for a formal meal with plates, glasses, and utensils. A centerpiece of candles, greenery, and orange flowers runs along a dark table runner.
Two people wearing rings clasp hands. Both are in formal attire, including a suit jacket and dress shirt with cufflinks.
Two men in formal attire stand on a path, smiling and showing their rings. Trees and bushes line the path in the background.
Two people in formal attire serve slices from a decorated cake on a stand over a dark blue tablecloth.
Handwritten letters, a bow tie, flowers, candles, and wedding rings on a table with cake and drinks.
Wedding invitation, vow booklets, two rings in green cases, and beige roses on a marble surface.
Mailbox labeled "Kindred Spirit" on a wooden post with an open lid, next to a brown armchair, set in a garden with greenery.
Two men in white dress shirts and bow ties stand in front of a mirror adjusting their outfits, smiling. They appear to be getting ready for a formal event.
Two men in suits holding green booklets, standing outdoors. One man has a floral boutonniere.
White folding chairs arranged outdoors with lush floral decorations of orange and yellow flowers on a grassy area, surrounded by tall trees.
Two people in formal black attire hold drinks, each with a floral boutonniere. One person is holding a glass with a straw.
A crowd of people stands in front of a two-story house with a balcony, where two people are speaking to the gathered audience.
Two people in tuxedos dance closely on an outdoor balcony at dusk, with trees in the background.
A sliced cake with white icing and floral decoration sits on a stand, next to a plate with a piece of the cake, on a blue tablecloth.
Two people in formal attire dance together, both wearing white shirts and dark suspenders. They are surrounded by other people in a dimly lit room.
Floral arrangement with roses and greenery wrapped around a tree trunk, outdoors near a building.
Table setting with floral centerpiece, wine glasses, candles, and a menu on a white tablecloth with an orange runner.
Floral arrangement with red, yellow, and white flowers in a vase on a table, next to lit tea candles.

Love in Bloom: Matt and Holden’s Enchanting Fall Wedding in Northern California

In the heart of Northern California, amidst the serene beauty of fall, love blossomed into an unforgettable celebration as Matt and Holden exchanged vows in a wedding that blended tradition with personal touches. Against the backdrop of a picturesque oak tree adorned with cascading garlands, their love story unfolded, weaving together elements of their journey and their commitment to inclusivity.

Holden, hailing from the charm of South Carolina. Was proposed to by Matt amidst the ambiance of the Kindred Spirit mailbox in Brunswick County, North Carolina, embarked on a journey that led them to the enchanting landscapes of Northern California. The Kindred Spirit mailbox, a symbol of shared dreams and aspirations, found its way into their wedding narrative, not merely as a memory but as a centerpiece of their celebration. A replica of this cherished mailbox stood proudly, serving as a card box, inviting guests to leave their well wishes and blessings for the newlyweds, just as visitors have done for years on Bird Island.

The essence of LGBTQ+ pride and solidarity was subtly yet powerfully incorporated into the fabric of their celebration. At each dinner table, inspiration LGBTQ+ quotes adorned the setting, handpicked by the grooms themselves. These quotes, resonating with meaning and significance, served as reminders of love’s diversity and the beauty of embracing one’s true self.

Prior to their heartfelt ceremony, Matt and Holden opted for a tender moment of togetherness, getting ready side by side at Park Winters. Alone in their shared anticipation, this intimate gesture served as a soothing balm for nerves, strengthening their bond as they prepared to embark on this new chapter of their lives.

As the sun cast its golden glow upon the gathering, a live trio serenaded guests, setting the stage for an atmosphere of warmth and joy. Against this melodic backdrop, Matt and Holden stood together beneath the majestic oak tree, surrounded by loved ones, to profess their love and commitment to each other.

Their first dance, a moment of pure magic, unfolded on the new back balcony of the main house, offering panoramic views of the idyllic surroundings. With every step, every twirl, Matt and Holden danced into a future filled with promise and shared dreams, their love radiating like the autumn sun.

In every detail, from the tender moments of togetherness to the symbolic gestures of inclusivity, Matt and Holden’s wedding was a testament to the power of love and the beauty of embracing one’s journey, wherever it may lead. As they embark on this new adventure as spouses, their love story continues to inspire, reminding us all of the timeless magic of love in bloom.

Favorite Things:

  1. The grooms starting their day and getting ready together. 

  2. Kindred Spirit mailbox.

  3. Their first dance on the balcony.

Wedding Details:

Venue: Park Winters

Style: Modern, Fall

Colors:  Orange, Mustard, Olive Green

Guest Count: 125

Vendors

Beauty: All Dolled Up

Wedding Planner: Curated by Grace + White

DJ: Function 45

Musician: Bellarosa Quartet

Venue: Park Winters

Photography + Cinema: Kendall Aubrey

Rentals: BBJ La Tavola Linen + Memorable Events

Transportation: Universal Limo

Dessert: Kimberly Schenk

Flowers: Dixon Florist